Mom, Wife, or Daughter: Who Would You Choose?

Has someone asked you who you would choose: your mom, wife, or daughter? It’s an age-old dilemma, but there’s only one answer to this question.

Muhammad Qanit

8/28/20242 min read

a group of people posing for a photo in front of a wood door
a group of people posing for a photo in front of a wood door

Once in your life, this dilemma has surely crossed your mind. Whether it was a random quiz, someone you know asked, or a fleeting thought, this question may have left you scratching your head. Each of these special ladies holds an irreplaceable place in your heart, but when you look at the question carefully, an answer immediately appears.

You may wonder what answer I’m talking about, but it’s simple: You choose your partner. Before you rush to the comments, let’s discuss everyone’s role in your life.

Your Mom
a woman holding a baby in her arms
a woman holding a baby in her arms

Moms are often the glue that holds the family together. They are the primary source of love and support, and from the moment we’re born, we form a connection that stays with us for life. Additionally, they are the emotional anchor that holds you together when things get tough.

Your Wife
man and woman holding hands
man and woman holding hands

When you marry a woman, you aim for her to be with you forever. You’re not just getting a partner; you have a best friend for life, a confidant who keeps your secrets, and a constant source of love and support. Together, you celebrate life, face challenges, and build your future. She’s not just a person you spend all your time with, but someone you share every aspect of your life with. She is your go-to person for everything, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally.

Your Daughter
photo of girl riding on person shoulder
photo of girl riding on person shoulder

The joy of having a daughter is next to none. They bring happiness, hope, and light to your family. Watching them grow into amazing people is one of life’s greatest blessings. Moreover, the bond between a daughter and her parents is an extraordinary experience.

How Do You Choose?

Now, if everyone has their place, why must you choose? The simple thing is, that life is unpredictable, and you may face a situation where you must choose a side, whether in an argument or any similar circumstance. For me, the choice is simple: you always choose your wife.

Your wife is someone who’s going to be with you forever. Let me ask you something: your mother has your father with her, and your daughter will eventually start her own family and move on to bigger things, but who’s going to be with you through everything? That’s right, your partner. She left everything to be with you, and she trusts you with everything she has. In the end, when you grow old, the only person who sticks with you is your wife, and that’s why this dilemma is easy for me to answer.

While every relationship has its significance, I would always choose my partner. You may have different opinions on this topic, and I would love to hear them.